Stepparent Adoption Attorneys
Bringing Blended Families Together
At Haslam Perri Law Firm, we provide experienced representation to stepparents interested in legally adopting their spouse’s child — bringing their blended families together and securing their parental rights in San Bernardino County courts.
Stepparent Adoption — Ontario CA
Experienced Representation for Blended Families
Are you interested in adopting your spouse’s child born from a previous marriage or relationship? At Haslam Perri Law Firm, we provide experienced stepparent adoption representation to families throughout San Bernardino County — helping you bring your blended family together with full legal recognition.
The stepparent adoption process varies from county to county in California, but several key steps are common to each adoption. Our board-certified attorneys guide you through every phase — from filing the initial petition through the final adoption hearing — handling every legal requirement on your behalf.
We understand the roadblocks that can arise during the adoption process and work proactively to eliminate these problems. Whether the absent parent is uncooperative, refuses to consent, or cannot be located, Donald Glen Haslam and our experienced team have the knowledge and determination to complete your adoption successfully.
- ✓Stepparent adoption petition filing and court representation
- ✓Handling uncooperative or absent biological parents
- ✓Termination of parental rights by law or abandonment
- ✓Private and contract adoptions also handled
- ✓Board-certified — AV Rated by Martindale-Hubbell
"When the adoption is complete, your rights as a stepparent will be that of a parent. You will become the legal father or mother of the child — in every sense that matters."
— Donald Glen Haslam, Haslam Perri Law FirmThe Adoption Process
How Stepparent Adoption Works in California
While the stepparent adoption process varies from county to county in California, several steps are common to every adoption. Our attorneys guide you through each one — handling every legal requirement on your behalf.
Types of Adoption We Handle
Stepparent Adoption and Private Adoption Services
Haslam Perri Law Firm handles both stepparent adoptions and private contract adoptions — providing experienced, board-certified representation for every type of adoption in San Bernardino County.
Your Rights After Adoption
What It Means to Be a Legal Parent
When the adoption is complete, your rights as a stepparent will be those of a full legal parent. You will become the legal father or mother of the child — with every right and responsibility that comes with that status under California law.
The biological parent whose rights were terminated will have no further legal connection to the child. The adopted child gains full inheritance rights from you and your family, and a new birth certificate is issued reflecting the adoption.
- ✓Full legal custody and visitation rights
- ✓Authority to make healthcare and education decisions
- ✓Child gains inheritance rights from stepparent's family
- ✓New birth certificate issued with stepparent listed
- ✓Biological parent's rights fully terminated
- ✓Child may take stepparent's last name
Client Testimonials
What Our Adoption Clients Say
"Haslam Perri guided us through our stepparent adoption from start to finish. The absent parent was uncooperative but Donald Haslam handled it expertly. Our family is now legally complete and we could not be happier."
"I was worried the adoption process would be complicated and stressful. Haslam Perri made it straightforward and smooth. My husband is now the legal father of my daughter. It means everything to our family."
"The absent father had not seen or supported our child in years. Haslam Perri successfully argued parental abandonment and our stepparent adoption was approved. Professional, knowledgeable, and truly caring attorneys."
Frequently Asked Questions
Stepparent Adoption — Questions Answered
Clear answers to the most common stepparent adoption questions in San Bernardino County. Contact us to schedule your consultation and learn how we can assist you with the adoption process.
Stepparent adoption is the legal process by which a stepparent becomes the legal parent of their spouse’s child from a previous relationship. Once complete, the stepparent has all the rights and responsibilities of a biological parent — including custody, visitation, and inheritance rights — and the child gains full legal recognition as the stepparent’s child. At Haslam Perri Law Firm, we guide stepparents through every step of this process in San Bernardino County courts.
Yes, in most cases. The absent biological parent must either voluntarily consent to the termination of their parental rights or have their rights terminated by the court. If the absent parent is uncooperative, refuses to consent, or cannot be located, our attorneys pursue termination of parental rights through the court — either by demonstrating legal grounds for involuntary termination or by establishing that the absent parent has effectively abandoned the child.
California courts can treat a parent as having abandoned a child when that parent has willfully failed to communicate with or support the child for at least one year, despite having the ability to do so. If the absent parent has made no contact and paid no support for a year or more, our attorneys can petition the court to have that parent’s rights terminated on abandonment grounds — clearing the way for your stepparent adoption to proceed.
The timeline varies depending on whether the absent parent cooperates and the specific requirements of San Bernardino County courts. When the absent parent consents, the process can be completed in as little as three to six months. When parental rights must be terminated involuntarily or the absent parent cannot be located, the process can take longer. Our attorneys work efficiently to complete your adoption as quickly as possible.
Once stepparent adoption is finalized in California, the stepparent becomes the child’s legal parent in every sense — with full parental rights to custody, visitation, and decision-making authority regarding the child’s healthcare, education, and welfare. The child also gains inheritance rights from the stepparent and the stepparent’s family. The biological parent whose rights were terminated loses all legal connection to the child.
A private adoption — also called a contract adoption — is an adoption where the terms are negotiated directly between the biological mother and the adoptive parents, with the assistance of attorneys. The agreement is put in writing and governs the terms of the adoption. At Haslam Perri Law Firm, we represent clients in both stepparent adoptions and private contract adoptions, ensuring the process proceeds smoothly and all legal requirements are met.
Schedule Your Stepparent Adoption Consultation — Free
Talk to one of our experienced adoption lawyers about how we can help bring your blended family together. Call 909-321-2223 or contact us online to arrange your consultation today.

